🔴When The Narcissist Realizes That Access to You Is No Longer an Option for Them | Narcissism | NPD

Please Subscribe @NarcPedia for various topics related to narcissism and narcissists. Let's study and grow together! Thank You! Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel! Thank you for joining us for another video. If you enjoy our content, please take a moment to like and subscribe. Your support helps our channel grow and reach more people who may benefit from our discussions. Today, we are going to delve into an important topic: what happens when a narcissist realizes that you are no longer an option for them. This is a significant moment, and understanding it can provide clarity for many who have dealt with narcissistic individuals. Narcissists live their lives in a very specific way. They are often delusional, creating a reality based on the lies they tell themselves. This distorted perception shapes their interactions and relationships. You might be wondering, "What do you mean by the lies they tell themselves?" Well, narcissists frequently deceive themselves about their worth, their impact on others, and the nature of their relationships. They might believe they are superior or that they are entitled to the attention and affection of others, regardless of how they treat those people. For those of you who have experienced the difficult decision to leave a narcissist, you may have noticed a strong reaction from them. When someone decides to discard a narcissist, it can come as a shock. The narcissist often does not want the relationship to end. They may try various tactics to regain control or to convince the other person to come back. This is because, in their minds, they are entitled to have access to you at all times. When you, as the person who left, firmly state, "No, I’m done with this relationship," it triggers something profound within the narcissist. They may feel a mix of confusion, anger, and disbelief. It is important to understand that this realization does not happen immediately. It can take a significant amount of time for a narcissist to truly grasp that you are no longer a choice for them. This process can take weeks, months, or even longer. Narcissists often ignore verbal statements about ending the relationship. Instead, they focus on actions. Even if you tell them repeatedly that you want to move on, they may dismiss your words and cling to the hope that you will return. This is because they are deeply invested in the narrative they have created for themselves, which often includes the belief that they can always reclaim lost affection. When a narcissist finally comes to the painful realization that you are no longer available, it can be a devastating experience for them. This is especially true if they do not have a new source of supply that can fill the void you left. For a narcissist, the idea of losing access to someone who provided them with validation and attention is troubling. They are accustomed to being in control, and the loss of a relationship can disrupt their carefully constructed self-image. "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel." #Narcissist #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #ToxicRelationships #MentalHealth #NPD #Psychology #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder