3 signs a narcissist is love bombing you

3 signs a narcissist is love bombing you

Love bombing is the step that happens before devaluation. Love bombing is done to gain your trust. If the narcissist can gain your trust by checking in on you and making you think they just care about you, getting involved in every aspect of your life to make you think they care about your interests, and show concern that the people you care about don’t necessarily have your back, they have you right where they want you. A normal person might check in with you throughout the day, but not every day and it won’t feel all-consuming. A normal person might take part in some of your interests, but still have a life of their own, and again it won’t feel all-consuming. A normal person will want you to spend time with the people in your circle, and not talk shit about them having ulterior motives. If there is a genuine concern with someone, it’s not something they’re going to bring up early on in the relationship, friendship, etc. It can feel very confusing to navigate love bombing at the beginning of a relationship but the truth is, relationships with healthy normal people don’t start off with these tactics to immediately get you roped in. The more you’re aware of these tactics, the easier they are to spot sooner rather than later. This wasn’t a full list of all the signs of love bombing so feel free to share in the comments the signs you’ve noticed that might seem innocent enough at first but ended up being a trap ⬇️⬇️ Follow this link to watch the replay of my free webinar on how to stop gaslighting yourself: https://linktr.ee/letsgetyourshifttog... #lovebombing #narcawareness #manipulationtactics #lovebomb #devalue #discard