🔴They'll Always Suffer! Why Narcissists Struggle to Overcome the Pain of Losing You | Narcissism

Please Subscribe @NarcPedia for various topics related to narcissism and narcissists. Let's study and grow together! Thank You! Hello everyone, and welcome back to our channel! Thank you for joining us for another video. If you enjoy what we share, please remember to like and subscribe. Your support helps our channel grow and reach more people who might benefit from our content. Now, let’s dive into the topic of today’s video. Many people ask why the narcissist remains obsessed after a relationship ends. They wonder why the narcissist still holds anger towards them or seems determined to ruin their reputation. Some might even ask why the narcissist occasionally calms down, only to return to their smear campaign later. These are important questions, and today, I want to shed some light on this behavior. To understand this, we need to recognize that if you were considered Grade A supply by the narcissist—whether you ended the relationship or they did—you are likely experiencing these reactions. This is especially true for those who had the strength and courage to discard the narcissist. Even if the narcissist discarded you and then tried to win you back, only for you to stand firm and say, "No, I will not return," this message is directed at you as well. When a narcissist loses control over someone, it results in what is known as a narcissistic injury. This injury is a significant blow to their ego. Narcissists are fundamentally driven by their ego, which means they will struggle to move past the pain of losing you. The core of their distress comes from the loss of control they had over you. Narcissists operate on the foundation of control; it is the very basis of how they navigate their relationships and manipulate others. When you remove yourself from their influence—whether by leaving them or by refusing to return—you send a powerful message. You are essentially telling the narcissist that their ego is not strong enough to keep you in their grasp. By choosing to distance yourself, you are communicating that they lack the power to hold onto you. This realization is profoundly unsettling for them. Narcissists thrive on validation and attention, known as supply. When they lose a source of supply, particularly one that they valued highly, it creates a void in their lives. This void is filled with anger and resentment. They may feel humiliated or diminished because someone they viewed as inferior has chosen to walk away. This is why they often resort to tactics like smear campaigns—these actions are a way to regain a sense of control and to project their pain onto you. Moreover, the narcissist’s obsession can manifest in various ways. They may continuously bring up the past, attempt to manipulate situations to their advantage, or engage in gossip and slander. These behaviors are not just about revenge; they are also about trying to reclaim their lost sense of power. Their need to maintain a certain image and control their narrative becomes paramount. "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel." #Narcissist #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #ToxicRelationships #MentalHealth #NPD #Psychology #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder