What is Love Lesson at Life Coach Boot Camp

Visit: https://lifecoachbootcamp.com/relatio... What is Love? by: George Tannous, PhD Become a Certified Life Coach Do you remember how it felt when you fell in love? Do you remember the first time you met that special someone and couldn’t get the person out of your mind? Falling in love is an intense yet delightful feeling. The butterflies in the stomach, the excitement of the new relationship, the constant uncertainty, and the willingness to become a better person. Your playlist gets populated with romantic songs, the meanings behind movies change, the world suddenly becomes a better place, and you just can’t stop daydreaming. Love is indeed a wonderful feeling. But what happens after you fall in love? What happens when the phase of butterflies and candlelight dinners conclude, and you go back to your routine lives? Does everything still stay the same? No, things change. And not everyone is willing to welcome this change with open arms. The initial few months of every relationship are divine. When someone gets into a fresh new relationship, they stay on their toes to do things for one another. But eventually, this pattern breaks. After a few months/years in a relationship, as people become vocal and assertive about their needs, people start noticing their differences. They start forgetting why they fell in love with the person in the first place. The relationship that used to be a source of happiness, the face that used to light up their day, starts becoming a source of pain and sorrow. Is this the story of every relationship? The good news is no. It’s not. Falling in love doesn’t require much effort. But staying in love and making any relationship work requires constant work. This relationship can be the relationship between friends, family, spouses, etc. So, what exactly is love? Love gives you the feeling of belongingness. It gives you the heavenly feeling of being wanted by someone. When you are in a loving relationship, you feel that your needs matter, you feel cared for and most importantly you feel safe. But being in love is not enough. Just like we require food and water to survive, a relationship also requires constant and consistent expression of love to not only survive but to thrive. Hence, expressing love is a crucial part of any relationship. So how do you express your love for someone? The good news is, while staying in love requires constant effort, expressing love does not. With the help of simple acts, people can express love for one another and transform their relationship. Here are a few ways which will help express your love for someone. Complimenting each other One way to show love and affection is to complement. “You are looking lovely in that dress”, “That suit really suits you”, “Today’s meal is extremely delicious”, “Your new haircut looks great”. When you compliment someone, you tell them that you appreciate them which makes them feel wanted. Doing things for each other Another way of expressing love is by doing things for one another. Cooking for each other, taking turns for taking care of kids, helping each other with daily chores and being a helping hand when your loved one is in crisis can help you strengthen the bond.