How to win friends( part 1) Secrets of Abraham Lincoln/Influence people/Criticism/

How to Win Friends? How to Influence People? How to learn not to criticize anyone? Secret of Abraham Lincoln to deal with people. it's a story of Rahul, who learns the secret of Abraham Lincoln about dealing with people. Rahul's father scolds him regularly. He shouts at him for watching Cartoons. He finds fault for playing football at night, He criticizes him for spending money lavishly and questions him about value of money? One day Rahul cries , gets frustrated, Wants to question his father. On his way to home, he receives a message from Universe. ''There lies a perfect ruler of men that the world has ever seen. Rahul thinks who is that Ruler. Then he finds that he was Abraham Lincoln. Here raises questions in his mind. Was Lincoln indulge in criticism? What's his method of dealing with people? Abraham Lincoln as a young man criticized, wrote poems ridiculing people. Abraham Lincoln as a lawyer, often attacked his opponents openly in letter published in the newspapers. Abraham Lincoln,once brutally rebuked , lampooned, a politician, James shields, through an anonymous letter published in the Springfield journal. James shields, sensitive and proud,boiled in indignation. He found out who wrote letter. And Challenged Lincoln to fight a duel. Lincoln opposed dueling. However, he couldn't get out of it. Both prepared for to fight to the death. Their seconds interrupted and stopped the duel. That was the most lurid personal incident in the life of Abraham LIncoln. From that time on, He Never again wrote insulting letters He never again ridiculed any person. He never again criticized anyone for anything. Rahul learn's the secret of Abraham Lincoln not to criticize anyone for anything. Criticism is Futile because It puts a person on the defensive. Criticism is dangerous because it wounds a person's precious pride, and arouses resentment. He decides not to criticize his dad. On that night, He meets his dad and says. '' I love you'' Rahul's father , on that night, feels, a terrible fear comes over him. The habit of finding fault... that is his reward to Rahul for being a boy. He says, It isn't that I love you: it is that expectation on you and I am measuring you by the yardstick of my own years. Guiltily, Rahul's father comes to Rahul's bedside. There is so much that is good and fine and true in your character. The little heart of you is as big as dawn. This shows by your impulse to rush in and saying '' Love you Dad'', From tomorrow, I will never criticize you But explains what is right and what is wrong to you. FRIENDS, Never criticize anyone if you want to win friends and influence people. If you want to Gather Honey, Don't kick over the Beehive.