Homily of 7th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C : How does one forgive the unforgivable?

Homily of the 23rd of February 2025, 7th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C How does one forgive the unforgivable? First Reading 1 Samuel 26:2, 7-9,12-13,22-23 ; Responsorial Psalm Psalm 103:1-4,8,10,12-13 ; Second Reading 1 Corinthians 15:45-49 ; Gospel Reading Luke 6:27-38 Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, today we confront a deeply challenging question: How does one forgive the unforgivable? Our readings of this Sunday guide us through this difficult terrain, offering insights into the nature of forgiveness and the transformative power it holds. Many among us carry heavy burdens of pain and resentment. Some have witnessed unimaginable atrocities—parents and loved ones killed, homes destroyed, or endured the anguish of betrayal and infidelity. In these moments, it is easy to feel justified in seeking revenge. Yet, as followers of Christ, we are called to a higher standard. In our first reading from 1 Samuel 26:2, 7-9,12-13,22-23, we encounter King David, who faced relentless persecution from Saul. Despite Saul's repeated attempts on his life—throwing spears at him and plotting his demise—David had opportunities to take revenge but chose forgiveness instead. When he found Saul asleep in the cave, he spared his life. David’s actions remind us that true strength lies not in retaliation but in mercy. David’s forgiveness was not passive; it was an active choice to show love to someone who sought to harm him. He demonstrated that forgiveness means giving life—even to those who have wronged us deeply. This act of mercy reflects a nobility that transcends human understanding. In the Gospel reading from Luke 6:27-38, Jesus challenges us further by teaching us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. This radical command flips our natural instincts upside down. We often think that forgiveness requires reconciliation or that it is only valid if the offender repents. However, Jesus calls us to forgive regardless of the other person’s actions or attitudes. Forgiveness is not about excusing wrongs or forgetting them; it is about releasing ourselves from the chains of bitterness and resentment. As C.S. Lewis said, “If you do not forgive, you will not be forgiven.” This statement underscores the necessity of forgiveness as a reflection of God’s grace in our lives. So how do we forgive the unforgivable? Here are some guiding principles: 1. Acknowledge Your Pain: Recognise the hurt caused by the offense. Naming it is essential for healing. 2. Choose to Forgive: Forgiveness is a deliberate decision. It may not come easily, but it is a choice we must make repeatedly. 3. Pray for Your Offender: Jesus instructs us to pray for those who hurt us. This act can soften our hearts and open pathways to healing. 4. Trust God’s Justice: Understand that forgiveness does not mean ignoring justice. It allows God to handle retribution while we focus on healing. Dear friends, forgiving the unforgivable is one of the most challenging yet liberating acts we can undertake. It frees us from bitterness and allows God’s love to flow through us. As we navigate our personal struggles with forgiveness, let us remember David’s example and Jesus’ teachings. Forgiveness is not just for the offender but for our peace and spiritual well-being. May we choose to forgive as we have been forgiven by Christ, embracing the freedom that comes with letting go of our grudges. Let us pray for the grace to embody this radical love in our lives, transforming our hearts and reflecting God’s mercy to a world in desperate need of healing. May God bless you all abundantly!