
She Keeps Canceling Dates & Won't Meet Up | Dealing With Flaky Behavior
Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.developattraction.com/ato... Miguel was at a bar with some friends when he accidentally knocked into Mary. Instead of getting angry, Mary smiled and playfully punched Miguel on the arm. Miguel insisted on buying Mary a drink and they hit it off straight away. For the next two hours, Miguel and Mary stood in a corner of the bar, talking about everything from music to sport. After that night, Miguel was hooked. He couldn’t stop thinking about Mary. Their attraction was so strong, they both agreed they should catch up over the weekend. On Friday morning, Miguel sent Mary a message to make sure their date was still on. When Mary got back to Miguel, however, it wasn’t the kind of message he was expecting. Miguel blinked several times as he re-read Mary’s message: “Hey, I’m really sorry, but I don’t think I can make it this weekend. Got so many things to catch up on.” Miguel felt a surge of anger and frustration. He squeezed his phone, then typed out a reply, trying his best to stay calm: “No problem. Let’s catch up this evening.” “I’m really sorry. I can’t this weekend. Maybe next week,” Mary replied. Miguel’s blood began to boil. He had seen flaky behavior before and he wasn’t going to let Mary disrespect him this way. Miguel fired off another message: “You know when you arrange to meet someone it’s rude to cancel.” For the next hour, there was nothing but silence. Miguel decided to send Mary another message to try and fix the situation: “Hey, I just wanted to say I’m sorry I was angry before. I’m not angry at you. I was just disappointed because I really wanted to see you. Let me know when you’re free and we can catch up.” Miguel never heard back from Mary. His initial frustration and high level of emotional investment had turned Mary off and killed what little desire she had for him. * * Almost a year ago to the day, Mary had been shopping at a new department store downtown when Jeff introduced himself. Jeff had asked for her number, and over the course of the following week, they both agreed to meet up on Saturday afternoon. Jeff waited until Saturday morning before sending Mary a message: “Hey, can meet at 7 pm?” About twenty minutes later, Mary responded with a similar message to the one she would later send Miguel: “Hey, I’m really sorry but I can’t make it this weekend. I’m really busy, maybe next week.” Jeff didn’t even bother to respond. As Mary waited for a response, she began to feel more and more anxious. By late Saturday afternoon, Mary got the sense that Jeff wasn’t going to get back to her. She bit her lip. Maybe if I don’t see him tonight I’ll never see him again, she thought as she reached into her bag and pulled out her phone. Jeff’s phoned buzzed. He looked down and saw a message from Mary: “Hey, looks like I can make it after all. Still on for 7?” Read the full article: https://www.developattraction.com/wom... If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction. https://www.developattraction.com/ato... Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you. https://www.developattraction.com/get... Please click the link below to make a donation to support my work via PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr... Click the link below if you need Emergency Email/Skype support: https://www.developattraction.com/eme... Click the link below to send me an email or visit my website (DevelopAttraction.com): https://www.developattraction.com/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell