đź”´Your Silence Shatters Narcissist To Their Core #Narcissism #NPD

đź”´Your Silence Shatters Narcissist To Their Core #Narcissism #NPD

Please Subscribe ‪@NarcPedia‬ for various topics related to narcissism and narcissists. Let's study and grow together! Thank You! Today, I want to talk to you about some critical mistakes you might be tempted to make in your interactions with a Narcissist. It’s important to catch these mistakes early. Many people find themselves reaching out to the Narcissist unnecessarily, seeking closure or trying to have a conversation with them. Even if you have already made these mistakes, I encourage you to stay with us, as there are still ways to turn this situation to your advantage. First, it is essential to understand that Narcissists often push people away. They may tell you they no longer love you, say hurtful things, engage in manipulative behaviors such as triangulation, or even ghost you. Ghosting is when someone suddenly cuts off all communication without explanation. This behavior can leave you feeling very vulnerable, making it difficult to think clearly, eat properly, or even sleep. If you find yourself in this painful situation right now, it is crucial to adopt a counterintuitive mindset. When I say "counterintuitive," I mean that your current thoughts and feelings may not lead you to the best outcome. You might feel an overwhelming urge to reach out and talk things through with the Narcissist. However, it’s important to recognize that this desire stems from the emotional turmoil you are experiencing. You may be holding on to the memory of a time when the Narcissist was somewhat coherent and willing to communicate. But you must realize that the version of the Narcissist you remember is not the same as the person they have become now. The Narcissist is currently focused on punishing you. Their actions—whether it be ghosting you, giving you the silent treatment, or expressing their lack of love—are all aimed at hurting you. You might think, "If I go silent now, it won’t make a difference because they were the first to go silent or to say they don’t love me." You might also consider scenarios where you meet them for coffee or tea, believing that a face-to-face conversation could resolve everything. However, the Narcissist is intentionally placing you in a state of desperation. By withdrawing from your life, they aim to make you feel needy and dependent on them. For those who find themselves caught in this web of neediness, reaching out to the Narcissist may feel like your only option. You might have tried to contact them through text, phone calls, or social media, only to be ignored or blocked. This can make you feel isolated and trapped, as if the walls are closing in around you. Understand that this behavior is typical for Narcissists. They often operate under the false assumption that you cannot live without them. It is vital for you to awaken to the reality that you can indeed live without them, and you do not need their validation to feel worthy or whole. "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel." #Narcissist #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #ToxicRelationships #MentalHealth #NPD #Psychology #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #NoContact