
Nobody Wants This: Dating Therapy (Get off the apps!)
In my latest YouTube video titled Nobody Wants This: Dating Therapy, Get Off the Apps!, I take a deep dive into the dynamics of dating through the lens of Noah and Joanne from the show Nobody Wants This. As I provide hypothetical therapy, I address common yet challenging issues many people face in modern dating, such as the fears and excitement that arise when you find new love, family challenges when relatives disapprove of your relationship, and the struggle of losing oneself in a relationship. We explore how new relationships often bring a blend of vulnerability and joy, yet can trigger deep fears of rejection and failure. I also delve into how family disapproval creates pressure that can strain relationships, and the importance of maintaining individuality while navigating a new connection. Throughout the video, I provide practical dating advice, including how to get off the dating apps and make authentic connections. If you're someone who’s stuck in the endless cycle of swiping on Tinder or another dating app and you're feeling frustrated with modern dating, this video is for you! Whether you're looking for dating tips, advice on how to deal with family challenges, or strategies to keep your sense of self in a relationship, I offer insights drawn from the characters' experiences in the show and from my expertise as a therapist. Chapters: 00:00 - New Love, Family Tensions, and Self-Discovery 00:35 - Joanne’s Exciting New Connection 01:07 - Balancing Individuality and Relationship 01:25 - The Challenge of Vulnerability 01:48 - Courage and Hurt in Love 02:47 - Navigating Comparisons with an Ex 03:28 - Anxiety in the Early Stages of Dating 04:30 - Building Trust and Emotional Safety 07:20 - Dealing with Family Disapproval 08:39 - Joanne’s Conversion Decision: Staying Authentic 11:37 - Noah’s New Love After Breakup 13:00 - Balancing Excitement and Emotional Complexity 14:30 - Repairing Hurt and Strengthening Connection 14:55 - Family Differences and Relationship Growth 16:02 - Noah’s Emotional Struggles and Honesty 17:09 - The Pressure of Conversion and Commitment 19:26 - Standing Strong as a Couple Despite Family Pressure 19:50 - Final Reflections: Season Two is Coming! Credits: First episode date: September 26, 2024 (USA) Composer: Duncan Blickenstaff Created by: Erin Foster Genre: Romantic comedy Network: Netflix All non-licensed clips used for fair use educational purposes. Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. All non-licensed clips used for fair use educational purposes.