Is He Flaking On You? Say THIS To Him...

http://www.CoachNorth.com/ --- Is He Flaking On You? Say THIS To Him... We all know how much it sucks to be bailed on by a guy, especially if he’s someone who you are interested in romantically. Unfortunately this kind of thing happens more often than I’d like to admit, which is why knowing what to say to a man when it does flake on you will make all the difference in the world! Hey ladies, my name is Amy North, I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada and author of The Devotion System — a program designed to help women find and lock down love. Today I want to share with you a line that will get you far when it comes to getting a man to spend more time with you, especially in situations when he casually changes his plans. Before I share this with you I’d like to quickly ask that if you find this video at all helpful then please share it with your girlfriends and don’t forget to hit the subscribe button below. Your friends will not only appreciate you sharing this insight with them, but I too will appreciate the support! So, now that that’s out of the way, let’s talk about how to pull him back in when he tries to stray. To set the scene here, let’s pretend that you have dinner plans with a man. For the sake of this scenario we’ll call that man Dave. And let’s say that just hours before you’re meant to meet up Dave he shoots you a message or calls saying that something came up and he can’t make it. Now, how I see it you have two options here. The first is to get pissed off or upset and to tell Dave that you think he’s a selfish prick who has no consideration for anyone but himself... Okay, maybe that’s a bit extreme, but what I mean here is letting him know that you’re clearly annoyed by his flakiness. For instance, maybe you give him attitude or make it known that you’re not impressed by being short with him, sulking or speaking in a dry, flat tone. You know what I’m talking about! On the other hand, and this is most definitely the better option of the two, you can play it cool and let Dave know that it’s totally fine and you’ll catch him another time. Of course this is easier said than done, especially if you were really looking forward to spending time with him and are genuinely disappointed that he’s bailing, but letting him see that negative side of you will do you no favours in the long run. Instead, you want him to think feel as though he is he one missing out by bailing on you. So, if the guy you’re into bails on you then your absolute best bet is to sweetly say or text this to him: “It’s okay, I understand you’re busy. I have a lot going on in the next few days, but perhaps we can reschedule for later this week. Have a great day!” The reason why this works so well is because even if he assumes you won’t be upset about him cancelling on you, he still knows that there’s a possibility you won’t handle the situation well. However, by coming across as calm, cool and collected, it’ll make him WANT to spend time with you. After all, it’s not everyday that he encounters someone who radiates positivity, even in unfavourable situations. Now, I want to explain why each of those sentences is so important, I mean, why not just reply with “It’s okay” or “It’s cool?” So let’s start with the first part of that sentence, the “It’s okay, I understand you’re busy.” Telling him that it’s okay shows him your compassionate side and it’s your way of letting him know that you’re not mad or upset, which is particularly important if you are hoping to see him again. Adding in the “I know you’re busy” shows that you’re considerate of his schedule. This is worth noting because again, it shows him that you don’t expect him to drop everything he’s doing to see you. Also, that extra bit about him being busy makes the “it’s okay” sound more sincere, after all, those two small words can pack quite the punch, and they don’t always come across in a positive way. That’s why using both of these together is so imperative. Of course, there will be times when him bailing ISN’T okay! In fact, you may even want to pull your hair out in frustration of his flakiness. But again, if you’re looking to win this guy over then it’s important that you make him think that he’s missing out by not spending time with you. Getting angry or reacting negatively to him won’t make him want to see you, in fact, he may even go out of his way to avoid you if he feels like he’s in the dog house. ** More from Amy North: ** How to Get A Man: http://www.coachnorth.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: https://plus.google.com/1168230699486... Facebook:   / amy.north.798